It's important to negotiate with your Dominant/Submissive the scene you both want play out. Negotiation is time well invested if done correctly. It is important to know each other's likes/dislikes and especially what is the "goal" of the scene (what is it exactly that you want to accomplish). With this type of understanding there is a lesser chance of disappointment after and both parties will be satisfied.

DON'T engage with tons of interests at first. In my professional opinion 3 is my lucky number. If you are a more experienced Dominant then you can incorporate 5-7 but only after you are well acquainted with one another.

1. How will the negotiation occur?
   1. Phone
   2. In person
   3. Email
2. What is the overall goal of the session?
3. Is nudity allowed and/or sexual contact?
4. What interests will be explored?
5. What are the hard limits?
6. What are the desired safe words
7. Are there any psychological or physical limitations?
8. Are marks allowed?
9. What type of aftercare will be needed?
10. Are there any triggers (feelings, words, activities) that need to made aware?

With this in mind happy playing!

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